As the summer holidays approach, separated parents often face additional challenges when it comes to agreeing childcare arrangements. Whether it’s juggling work commitments, planning time away, or simply managing routines, the school holidays. They can placestrain on co-parenting relationships.
At Maria Fogg Family Law, we understand how important it is for children to enjoy the holidays without becoming caught in the middle of adult disagreements. That’s why we’ve put together some practical and legal tips to help families navigate the summer break. Reducing stress and improving cooperation.
1. Plan Ahead – and Put It in Writing
One of the best ways to avoid misunderstandings is to make arrangements early. Sit down with the other parent, ideally a few months in advance, and discuss how you will share the time. Once you’ve agreed, put everything in writing – this could be a simple email or message confirming the dates and details.
Written plans help avoid confusion and can be referred back to if there’s a disagreement later on.
2. Think About the Child First
The law is clear – the child’s welfare is always the most important consideration. When discussing plans, ask yourself:
- Will this arrangement help my child feel secure and settled?
- Am I being flexible enough to allow them to enjoy time with both parents?
Children benefit most when their parents can communicate calmly and respectfully.
3. Be Clear About Travel Plans Abroad
If one parent wants to take the child abroad during the holidays, they must have the other parent’s consent. Unless a court order (such as a ‘lives with’ order) is already in place.
Before booking anything, provide details of the trip:
- Dates of travel
- Destination
- Flight information
- Accommodation details
- Contact numbers
A clear and open approach is more likely to be received positively. It may also avoid unnecessary conflict or legal action.
4. Consider a Parenting Plan
A parenting plan is a voluntary written agreement that outlines how you will share parenting responsibilities. It can include:
- Holiday contact arrangements
- Communication guidelines
- How to manage disagreements
While not legally binding, it shows a commitment to working together and can be very helpful in keeping things on track.
5. When Agreement Can’t Be Reached – Seek Help Early
If you’re struggling to agree on arrangements, don’t leave it until the last minute. Our family solicitors are here to help you resolve issues in a child-focused way. Whether it’s through negotiation, mediation, or – if needed – a court application. We’ll support you every step of the way.
View our Child Contact page for more insight into co-parenting.
How We Can Help
At Maria Fogg Family Law, we know every family is different. Our team specialises in helping parents navigate separation and co-parenting with dignity and care. We offer compassionate legal advice tailored to your situation. We focus on minimising conflict and protecting your child’s wellbeing.
If you’re unsure about your rights, need help reaching an agreement, or want to formalise holiday arrangements, contact us today. We’re here to support you and your family.
